Seven Eleven

Today is my 32nd birthday. In my youth I was stoked on having a July birthday because I was out of school, summer season was in full swing and I felt free as a bird. As I got older the responsibility of work often got in the way but I still managed to enjoy my special day in one way or another. I can't help but look to the past and reflect on my most meaningful birthday moments.

I turned the big 21 while I was living in Singapore during my college exchange program. I had a fake ID since I was 19 so buying booze and drinking in bars/restaurants was not that exciting but the idea of doing it legally was still pretty powerful. The legal drinking age in Singapore is 18 so none of my new friends really thought much of the milestone. I still managed to let loose all day and night.

I turned 23 in Sevilla, Spain while I was on my 3 month European backpacking adventure. The trip was amazing and exhausting all at the same time. I visited 10 countries that summer. On that particular night I saw a traditional flamenco show and had a nice dinner by the river.

I spent my 26th birthday flying over Del Mar, California in a hot air balloon. It was an amazing present and I am still grateful for that opportunity. The winds got the best of the balloon and we ended up crash landing in someones backyard. No one got hurt and our driver said "don't worry, this happens all the time" but yeah right buddy. Definitely a classic day.

I spent my 30th birthday in my favorite city in world, New York. I was gifted a 5 day trip to NYC to enjoy, experience, and get inspired. I was alone but that was clearly by choice. The energy of NYC always brings me back for more. I can never get enough of that city.

Last year I was house hunting. I was in the process of placing an offer on small two bedroom home in San Pedro. I spent my 31st birthday with my realtor, inspectors, bankers etc as we walked thru final inspections on the property. It was a huge adult step day and I felt super confident with my decision. Unfortunately the deal fell thru and the downward spiral quickly took off from there.

Which brings me to today. I'm 32 and I am alone. No plans. No trips. No gifts. No fancy anything. Yes I am a bit sad but I am hopeful that things will not stay like this forever. I have my work cut out for me but I know it is possible. I did not get in this situation over night so I expect it will take some time to climb out of the hole. Just gotta stay positive. Easier said then done though. Cheers!